Sometimes, when you’re living with the effects of difficult experiences, it can feel impossible to explain what’s really going on. You might get angry, upset, go quiet, or need to walk away, but the people around you don’t always see this as a response to trauma. Too often, it gets misunderstood as “being difficult”.
That’s why the Healthwatch Essex Trauma Ambassador Group, working alongside young people across Essex, have created something new: the Young Person’s Trauma Resource – a discreet keyring that helps you make others aware of what you’re going through.
The keyring has been designed with young people for young people. It’s small, simple, and easy to carry; something you can keep close without drawing unwanted attention. If you’re in school, college, at the GP, in hospital, or anywhere else where you need support, you can show it to a professional so they understand that what they’re seeing is linked to trauma. It’s a way of saying, “this is what’s happening for me right now”, without having to find the words in the heat of the moment.
Young people helped to shape every stage of this resource, sharing honestly about what would (and wouldn’t) work:
“I would use a card, to be fair, but a lot of people my age wouldn’t. So it’s a good idea to have something different for them.”
“I definitely wouldn’t want it on my phone. That’s where all my stress comes from, so I would want something totally separate.”
“It needs to be like invisible, so that nobody would think anything if they saw it.”
“Just something really simple. If I get angry or upset, I can’t mess about with something complicated.”
By listening to this feedback, we’ve created a keyring that is discreet, practical, and empowering.
Sharon Westfield de Cortez, Information and Guidance Manager at Healthwatch Essex, said: “This project shows the power of co-production. By working directly with young people and listening to their experiences, we’ve been able to create a resource that genuinely meets their needs. The keyring is about empowerment – giving young people a simple way to communicate what they’re going through and helping professionals to respond with understanding.”
You can request your free Trauma Keyring here. If you’ve already started using the keyring, we’d love to hear how it’s helping you. You can share your feedback here and it will make sure this resource keeps evolving to meet young people’s needs.
At Healthwatch Essex, we know that trauma affects people in many different ways. This keyring is one small step towards making it easier for young people to be understood and supported.
